Advocacy & Finding Your Voice
Advocating for Your Child
Individual Advocacy
- As soon as possible, connect with a family who also has a child with special needs. Talking with a parent who has a similar situation may be helpful and empowering. Other parents know what you are going through and can be your best teachers in this new, unfamiliar world.
- Then, over time and as you are able, do the following:
- Learn everything you can about your child’s diagnosis and needs, from your pediatrician, early intervention specialist, therapist, other providers, and other parents.
- Find out about services for your child, such as special clinics, pediatric specialists, therapies, equipment, early childhood programs, and state and private agencies. Ask about financial eligibility, free services, and, most importantly, where to get the best care.
- Keep records of all phone calls, doctor visits, insurance bills, notices, and forms about your child. Always take notes, with the date you met or called and the name of the person you spoke with. If you’re not a good note taker, bring a friend who is, or use a tape-recorder, or the voice memo feature on your phone. Ask for copies of everything. Put all your child’s papers and information in one place—a box in the kitchen, a notebook, or a drawer, a place that works best for you.
- Become an expert on your child’s health insurance plan, whether it’s private or public such as Medicaid. Know the benefits that are covered. Read everything from your health insurance.
- Be open to learning new things. There are always at least two sides to an issue. See what the challenges may be to better know how to advocate your side.
- Build strong partnerships with the experts in your child’s life. Your child’s primary care doctor, specialists and therapists can be trusted partners that can help advocate for proper services and support that your child and your family may need.
- Know that YOU are your child’s best advocate. No one else can do the job as well. Use all your information, sources, and skills to advocate, and try to advocate with kindness and understanding. Mentor a sibling or friend to do so too, for the times that you won’t be able to be there.
- Teach your child self-advocacy skills as soon as possible. You can support the growth of these skills by being an example, but also be sure to offer chances for your child to speak and advocate for himself, about his needs and desires, about his life and future. Encourage your child to speak with providers about his special needs to however he can.
- Take care of YOU, which means advocating for yourself as well. Have a backup plan for those times when you need someone else to take the lead. No one will know that you need help with something unless you speak up. Sometimes it will seem harder to advocate for yourself than it is for your child, but you can’t really take care of your family if you don’t care for yourself, too!
Talking Tips:
- Have a good plan of what you want and why you want it.
- Go over what you will say, maybe with a friend.
- Speak clearly.
- Keep eye contact.
- Take your time when talking, and ask for time to think if you need it.
- If needed, repeat what you hear to be sure you really understand what is being said.
- Be respectful.
- Be careful of your body language (do you look or act angry, hasty, or upset?).
- Be open and ready to work together to find middle ground.
- Following up is vital.
- Clearly explain the value of resolving the issue.
Advocating for the Community
- Help a family that is just learning about their child’s needs and how to work with the health care or education systems by being a parent-to-parent support.
- Ask a disability agency or a parent support group how you can get involved.
- When you feel ready, look for ways you can help change systems. You might think about volunteering on an advisory board, or participating in state consumer groups that make and improve policies that help others.
What Do I Have to Offer?
What if We Just Can't Agree?
- Share your assumptions and perspectives.
- Listen with both your head and your heart.
- Try to think and see from the other’s point of view.
- What might help that person feel more at ease with the issue?
- Find a middle ground to work together.
- Try restating the problem.
- Think of how barriers, negative experiences, and concerns could be known and addressed.
- Involve others to find a solution. Who might offer a useful or needed outlook?
Advocating for Legislative Change
Step 1: Choosing and Learning about Your Issues
Step 2: Identify the Decision Makers
Step 3: Understand the Legislative Process
Step 4: Communicating Your Views
- Always identify yourself by name and address. One of the most important things you can tell them about yourself is, “I am a voter in your district.”
- Be brief, well-informed, and polite.
- Point out the issue, budget item, or bill you want to talk about. Don’t expect they know about it—they have much to deal with.
- State your purpose for calling, state your point of view and give one or more reasons why you feel that way.
- Tell your own story.
- Always thank them for their time.
Calling
Emailing
Visiting
Resources
Information & Support
For Parents and Patients
Advocacy ATLAS
Online Advocacy ATLAS is a toolkit created by Genetic Alliance, Parent to Parent USA, and Family Voices that provides individuals
with special healthcare needs and their families with tools and strategies to advocate for whatever they may need. Resources
for: Access to Healthcare, Accessibility, Communicating About Your Health, Advocacy Leadership, Insurance and Financial Assistance,
Transition to Adulthood, etc.
Golden Rules of Effective Advocacy
From: A Guide for the Powerless — and Those Who Don’t Know Their Own Power; Samuel Halperin, Institute for Educational Leadership,
Washington, D.C., 1981.
Services for Patients & Families in Nevada (NV)
Service Categories | # of providers* in: | NV | NW | Other states (4) (show) | | NM | OH | RI | UT |
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Disability Rights Groups | 17 | 7 | 17 | 7 | 12 | 26 | |||
Disease/Disability Information | 68 | 44 | 54 | 44 | 50 | 80 | |||
Local Support Groups, Disability/Diag | 45 | 8 | 22 | 8 | 22 | 106 | |||
National Support Services, Disab/Diag | 122 | 122 | 123 | 122 | 122 | 123 |
For services not listed above, browse our Services categories or search our database.
* number of provider listings may vary by how states categorize services, whether providers are listed by organization or individual, how services are organized in the state, and other factors; Nationwide (NW) providers are generally limited to web-based services, provider locator services, and organizations that serve children from across the nation.
Authors & Reviewers
Author: | Medical Home Team |
Reviewer: | Tina Persels |
2012: revision: Alfred N. Romeo, RN, PhDR |
2012: first version: Gina Pola-MoneyR |